Dear Pious Reader,
Ramadhan came gently, and it departed just as quietly. My hope is that it did not leave with our prayers, our duas, or the goodness it awakened within us. For indeed, the true sign of an accepted Ramadhan is not how we were during it but who we have become after it.
Along these reflections, I was recently granted a rare opportunity to watch a film that stirred something deep within me. I never thought of myself as sentimental, yet I found my eyes heavy with tears. I felt compelled to share the lesson it left behind. The story centers on a young boy who believed the world could be changed through a simple idea: changing the lives of three people, and asking each of them to pay it forward. That thought lingered with me, how difficult is it, truly, to change the lives of only three people?
Changing lives does not always require wealth. Sometimes, the most transformative gifts are those that cost nothing at all. A wise saying reminds us that the best gifts we can give are these: To yourself: grant yourself the same grace you extend to others; honour your worth. To your parents: love them now with the same tenderness they once poured into you. To your siblings: show up for them as you wish they would for you. To your friends: trust them sincerely. And to all people: forgive them as you hope Allah will forgive you.
Kindness, in Islam, is not measured by money alone. The Prophet (s.a.w) taught us that even the smallest gestures carry immense weight. He said, “Smiling to a fellow brother is charity.” Every soul you encounter is fighting a battle you cannot see. So when you notice someone burdened by grief, sorrow, or distress, step in. Step up. Try, even briefly, to lighten their load. You may never know the value of that moment. Perhaps your presence might prevent despair. Perhaps your kindness might save a life. And if it does, would that not be enough to make your own life meaningful? The Messenger of Allah (saw) said: “Whoever relieves a believer of a hardship in this world, Allah will relieve him of a hardship on the Day of Resurrection.” And who among us does not long for ease on that Day? When every soul will stand alone, and only Allah’s mercy will matter?
Sometimes I wonder: why has goodness become so difficult? Why is it so hard to act upon what we already know is right? If you are blessed with wealth, is it truly difficult to empower another? I struggle with the culture of performative charity. The spectacle of crowds lining up at doorsteps for a meal. Why not take one person from that crowd and restore their dignity? Educate them. Equip them with a skill. Open a small business for them. Then ask them to pay it forward. Would our streets still be filled with hunger if we embraced this responsibility sincerely?
We speak endlessly about wanting a better world, yet we hesitate when it is time to do the work. We let money sit idle in our accounts, and when someone pleads for help, we offer just enough to ensure they return tomorrow! still dependent, still unseen. The Prophet (saw) dispelled this illusion when he said: “Charity does not decrease wealth.” Rather, Allah multiplies it. And he also said, with profound clarity: “A person’s wealth is only what he eats, what he wears, and what he gives in charity. Everything else is left behind for his inheritors.” We have to get rid of the mentality that giving out charity will reduce our wealth. That is just a notion that shaitan instils in us. Allah says this in the Quran: “The Devil threatens you with the prospect of poverty and bids you to the shameful deed of stinginess, while Allah promises you forgiveness and great bounties from Him. And Allah is All-Bountiful, All-Knowing.”
So perhaps the question is not whether we can change lives but whether we are willing to. And perhaps this is what Ramadhan was preparing us for all along. Not just to feel, but to act. Not just to give, but to transform lives. If the goodness it nurtured within us does not move beyond us, then we risk letting it fade. But if we carry it forward, one act, one soul, one life at a time, then perhaps Ramadhan never really left.
May Allah make us people whose goodness outlives our presence, whose charity restores dignity, and whose legacy is written not in numbers but in transformed lives. May we put in the work and make the world a better place.
Yours truly, the Soul whisperer.
