The most awaited time of the year, Ramadhan, is upon us, Alhamdulillah. For many people this means that the girl who wasn’t wearing her hijab will now be wearing it. The men who had stayed away from the masjid for months will now be standing in the front row of the mosque. Those who couldn’t go a day without smoking or using miraa will now put those habits on hold until later at night, or perhaps until the end of Ramadan. People who used to blast music in the neighbourhood will now have Sheikh Sudais on repeat.

Every year, we are reminded not to judge those who only engage in worship during Ramadan. Thereafter, we often observe them returning to their old habits. At times, we may find ourselves experiencing similar backsliding too. It’s easy to feel judgment toward them or ourselves based on how we revert to past sins. Regardless of how serious their actions may appear to us or those around us, we must remember that Allah’s door is always open to everyone—especially to those who seek a relationship with Him, even in the smallest ways.

There is a story about a thief that I once read, narrated by Sayyiduna Abu Bakr Shibli. “Once I was travelling to Syria along with a group of other travellers when on the way we were plundered by a gang of thieves. They took all our possessions and put them in front of their gang leader. Amongst the goods were a bag of sugar and almonds, the thieves began to eat them but their leader did not join them. I asked him why the rest of his gang was eating but he was not, he replied, “I am fasting”. I asked surprisingly, “How is it that you steal from people and fast at the same time?” He replied, “A man should do something to keep the doors of reconciliation open as well”. Sometime later I saw the same gang leader in a state of “ihram” performing tawaaf [circulating around] of the blessed ka’ba. His face was resplendent with the light of worship and he had weakened himself through devotional practices. I asked surprisingly, “Are you the same man?” he answered, “Yes, I am, and let me tell you, that very same fast is what caused my reconciliation with Allah”. (Raud-ur Riyaheen, P163, Maktaba-tul-Maymaniyyah Egypt)

This story serves as a powerful reminder that one’s past actions do not define the possibilities for redemption and transformation. It illustrates the potential for change and reminds us that no matter how ‘bad’ we might think we are, there is always the chance for growth and spiritual awakening. No one knows when a person will be granted tawfiq—the divine assistance to overcome their sins. Someone may have only worshipped during Ramadan for the past ten years, but perhaps this will be the year they finally conquer their nafs (inner self). Therefore, it is essential for us to extend grace, make dua (supplication), and guide others along the straight path without judgment. We never know what may happen. This perspective also applies to the struggles we face against our own nafs. Do not despair at Allah’s mercy; keep striving and be intentional about nurturing a good relationship with Him. No matter how distant you may feel from Allah, always keep the door open. There is always a chance for each of us.

Additionally, we must remember what Allah says about sinners;
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, “Allah, the Exalted, and Glorious said: ‘A slave committed a sin and he said: O Allah, forgive my sin,’ and Allah said: ‘My slave committed a sin and then he realized that he has a Rubb Who forgives the sins and punishes for the sin.’ He then again committed a sin and said: ‘My Rubb, forgive my sin,’ and Allah (SWT) said: ‘My slave committed a sin and then realized that he has a Rubb Who forgives his sin and punishes for the sin.’ He again committed a sin and said: ‘My Rubb, forgive my sin,’ and
Allah (SWT) said: ‘My slave has committed a sin and then realized that he has a Rubb Who forgives the sin or takes (him) to account for sin. I have granted forgiveness to my slave. Let him do whatever he likes”. The last sentence “let him do..”. means, as long he keeps asking for forgiveness after the commission of sins, and repents, Allah will forgive him because repentance eliminates previous sins”. (Editor’s Note) (Riyad as-Salihin 421)

As we enter this blessed month, let us approach it with intention and purpose. This is a time for deep reflection and repentance, where we turn to Allah with sincere hearts, asking for His divine guidance and support in our lives. It is essential that we confront and conquer our nafs, the inner voice that often leads us astray. And most importantly, when you see the ‘Ramadhan Worshippers’, before you start judging, before you feel the urge to mock, remember; the door of Allah is always open.

May this month serve as a powerful opportunity for redemption and transformation, helping us grow closer to our Creator and to our true selves. Ameen.

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I’m so excited for Ramadan; can you feel it? Ramadan Mubarak, good people! May this month be a breath of fresh air, a warm balm on our wounds, a comfy embrace, a chance for genuine change and the miracle we so desperately need. Ameen.