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“No vision can encompass Him, but He encompasses all vision. For He is the Most Subtle, All-Aware.” (Surah Al-Anam, Verse 103)

I used to hear about Allah’s name, Al-Lateef. I always understood that it encompasses His gentleness, graciousness, kindness, and subtlety. While I recognized these attributes, I often remained unaware of experiencing them in my life. Sometimes we don’t see it; we fail to notice how Allah delicately arranges our affairs for our own good. He is the Master of the Game of Cards, with every move made for a reason—very intentional and well thought out.

The significance of the name Al-Lateef dawned on me during a particular phase in my life when I started a new job role. After years of searching and hustling for employment, this moment was monumental for me—an answered prayer for something I had yearned for quite a while. However, as soon as I began the job, challenges started piling up one after another. It was overwhelming, and I felt so alone. I struggled internally, feeling I would be ungrateful to complain, since Allah had given me what I wanted. How could I dare to complain? I decided to embrace the experience as a test from Allah. I had received what I desired; would I be able to endure the minor discomforts that came with this blessing?

My primary colleague, regrettably, chose to complicate my work life. There was always a problem with him; it was evident that I was not welcome. I began to wonder if it was because of my religion, ethnicity, or my seemingly youthful appearance. I often found myself in tears and experienced embarrassing meltdowns at work on several occasions. At times, I felt so drained—mentally, physically, and emotionally—that I would sit under my desk for a brief moment to regain my composure. All I wished for was some ease.

About two months later, a new, young, and vibrant intern joined our team, straight from University. I was tasked with being his supervisor and teaching him the required skills. The first thing I noticed was that our values and personalities aligned, which made working with him easy. Furthermore, he possessed all the skills I needed in a team. It was also refreshing that he was passionate about our work and eager to learn new things. Gradually, I relied less on my challenging colleague and worked more closely with the intern. In my mind, I kept thinking, “This kid must be a Godsend. This is from Allah’s mercy.”

Then one day, the intern reached out to thank me for mentoring him and all the many things he had learned. During our conversation, he casually mentioned, “You know, I didn’t even study Communication. I studied Diplomacy. The Public Service Commission had placed me as an intern in a public office in Nairobi. However, the letter I received told me to come to this office in Mombasa. So technically, I wasn’t supposed to be here. According to the public service portal, I am actually in Nairobi! But here we are! In fact, my friends laughed when they heard I was working in a Communication office, considering I am very quiet, shy, and reserved. They still can’t believe I’m here, getting out of my comfort zone…”

Subhanallah, the way this information blew my mind was extraordinary. Truly, Allah is subtle in how He handles our affairs, always doing so with care and gentleness. There was no mistake; the intern was precisely where he was meant to be. He learned from me something he never thought he could do, and, for me, I received the assistance I desperately needed.

This experience has been a powerful reminder of how Allah extends His mercy and kindness to us, sometimes in a subtle manner. When the intern’s contract ended this February, I felt an immense void and work became increasingly challenging. Then, on the first Friday of this Ramadhan, a bright and cheerful young lady entered our office asking for directions. I pointed her the way, and when she asked for my name, her reaction caught me off guard. “Oh! My lecturer said I remind him of you and encouraged me to seek your guidance!”

We exchanged phone numbers, and I continued my day without much thought about it. The following Friday, during a meaningful conversation, she opened up about her struggles to join the university. As we spoke, she expressed, “I really want to learn from you. I have plenty of free time and live nearby. Please don’t hesitate to reach out if you ever need help. I’m here for you.”

It wasn’t just her words, but the way she expressed them that brought tears to my eyes. The number of times she repeated, “I am here for you,” felt like a deeply intentional message, as if she had been sent specifically for me. Just when I thought I was back at square one, Allah introduced me to another extraordinary soul who shares my principles and values and is ready to support me. She even signed up as a volunteer in our department to receive training. But to me, she represents a God-sent relief. Subhanallah. Alhamdulilah.

I often reflect on these incidents. Allah showers us with His mercy amidst trials. While it may not always be obvious, there are always ways in which He supports us, making life just a bit more bearable. He grants us ease in the most challenging situations and sends kind people to help us. Subhanallah, nothing is a coincidence. Everything that happens to us is part of His intricate plan, filled with mercy. He never overlooks anything and continues to bestow upon us His favours in such a way that we do not see or feel.

Reflecting on your own life, you will likely recognize numerous instances where Allah has showered you with affection and kindness, even when everything around you seemed dark and bleak. In moments when you feel like the situation is the worst it could possibly be, always remember that He is Al-Lateef. He does more for you than you could ever comprehend.

When your heart is shattered and you want to call upon Him, remember to invoke this beautiful name: “Ya Lateef…” Ask for His care, gentleness, and affection. He is already showering you with these blessings without your asking; imagine the abundance if you actually seek it from Him.

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اللهم يا لطيف، الطف بنا فيما جرت به المقادير، وسهّل لنا أمورنا، واغمر قلوبنا بلطفك ورحمتك، واجعل لنا من كل همّ فرجًا، ومن كل ضيق مخرجًا، وارزقنا من حيث لا نحتسب، واشملنا بعفوك وكرمك، إنك على كل شيء قدير.

Transliteration:
Allahumma ya Lateef, ultuf bina fima jarat bihi al-maqadeer, wa sahhil lana umoorana, waghmir quloobana bilutfika wa rahmatika, waj‘al lana min kulli hammin farajan, wa min kulli dayqin makhrajan, warzuqna min haythu la nahtasib, washmilna bi‘afwika wa karamika, innaka ‘ala kulli shay’in qadeer.

Translation:
“O Allah, O The Most Subtle, be gentle with us in what You have decreed, ease our affairs, fill our hearts with Your kindness and mercy, grant us relief from every worry, an escape from every hardship, provide for us from where we do not expect, and envelop us in Your pardon and generosity. Indeed, You are capable of all things.”

May Al-Lateef bless you and all those around you with His infinite gentleness, mercy, and hidden blessings.

We’ve all had that one dua, or several, that brought us down to our knees—a desperate plea, a heart-wrenching request, something that brings tears to our eyes the moment it’s mentioned. “Please pray for us to have a child.”

“I am miserable at my workplace. I need a new job.”

“I’m so stressed from all my debts…”

“I wish I could get married too.”

“Please remember my sick daughter in your duas…”

“I keep praying for my spouse to change…”It goes on and on.

We’ve all experienced that sense of helplessness and heartache, longing for our prayers to be answered. It may have been days, months, or even years of waiting, praying, begging, and pleading, telling anyone willing to listen to please pray for us. In the midst of all this heaviness and desperation comes the ultimate submission to Allah. We realize that this world, with all its riches, is insignificant and powerless, except when Allah wills it.

During these trying times, Shaitan is particularly active, looking for any opportunity to instil hopelessness in us, to make us believe that Allah can’t hear us or won’t respond. He wants to make us abandon acts of worship, making us think, “What’s the point if Allah won’t answer my pleas?”

Imagine a child eagerly wanting to swim in the deeper side of the pool. They see their friends confidently swimming in that part, having fun and enjoying themselves, and they desperately want to join them. But as the parent, you know that they’re not quite ready for the deeper end. If they jump in too soon, they might struggle, get overwhelmed, or even hurt themselves. So, you guide them to the shallow end, where they can gradually learn, gain confidence, and build strength. You might give them a floater or a swimsuit to help them feel safe and secure.From the child’s perspective, though, they don’t understand why they can’t jump into the deeper end right away. They see their friends thriving there, and they cry or beg to join, feeling left out. But as a parent, you know they need more time, more practice, and more preparation before they’re ready to swim safely in deeper waters.

In the same way, when we make duas and pray for things — a job, a marriage, a child, a change, an opportunity — we often see others who seem to have what we desire, and we feel frustrated or impatient. But Allah, in His wisdom, knows we might not yet be equipped to handle the blessings we ask for. Like the child, we may long for what we see others enjoying, but the “not yet” answer isn’t a rejection; it’s a form of preparation. Just as a child needs time in the shallow end to build their skills and confidence, we, too, need time to grow, learn, and become ready for the deeper blessings ahead. The deeper end will come when we are truly ready to thrive there.

No matter how difficult a situation may seem and how long it may take, find comfort in this: Abu Razin reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said, “Allah laughs at the despair of His servant, for He will soon relieve him.” I once asked, “O Messenger of Allah, does the Lord laugh?” The Prophet replied, “Yes.” I then said, “We will never be deprived of goodness by a Lord who laughs!” (Source: Sunan Ibn Mājah 181)

Beloved reader, Allah knows. Allah knows. Allah knows. Do not let Shaitan lead you to despair. Remember how many times we have witnessed women, past their menopause, give birth after years of waiting? How often have we seen Allah reunite loved ones after decades of separation? Take, for example, the families in Palestine, often separated for years but eventually reuniting. And how many people have married after it seemed hopeless? (Just recently, I read about a 63-year-old woman who got married for the first time.) Consider how Allah has sent strangers to those in distress and debt, who unexpectedly paid everything off, providing them with a fresh start. Isn’t the Qalby Etmaan program just one illustration of many ways Allah brings relief to countless individuals? Subhanallah!

I know it may not seem like it right now. Your desires might feel too far-fetched, unattainable, or impossible. But remember who your Lord is. He is the Lord of Musa (alayhi ssalam), who parted the sea; the Lord of Ayub, who healed him after years of suffering; the Lord of Ibrahim (alayhi ssalam), who was unharmed by the fire; the Lord of Maryam, who was granted a miraculous pregnancy; and the Lord of Umar ibn Khattab, who transformed from being the greatest enemy of Islam to one of its staunchest supporters. Indeed, nothing is impossible.Hang in there.

This Ramadan, do not stop making your dua(s). Instead, elevate them with more passion, conviction, hope, and faith in Allah.It was narrated from Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “There is no Muslim who calls upon Allaah with words in which there is no sin or severing of family ties but Allaah will give him one of three things: either He will answer his prayer soon, or He will store it up for him in the Hereafter, or He will remove something bad from him that is equivalent to what he is asking for.” They said, “Then we should make a great amount of du’aa’.” He said, “Allaah is greater.”Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3573; classed as saheeh by al-Tirmidhi and others.

In another hadith, It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “(The du’aa’) of any one of you will be answered so long as he is not hasty in seeking a response and does not say, ‘I prayed but I have not had a response.’” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5981; Muslim, 2735

Search for that long-awaited response, dear reader. Although the relief you seek may not have arrived just yet, it is steadily approaching, like the first light of dawn breaking through a dark night. Hold onto hope, for it is on its way to you. It is coming, and with it, peace and resolution will follow. It is coming. The relief is coming.

P.S: It’s the first Friday of Ramadhan alhamdulilah. Seek the hour of acceptance of dua (sa3t Al istijabah) and pour your heart to Allah. May all that you utter in sincerity be granted to you with abundance, ameen. Allah’s Messenger (ﷺp.b.u.h) talked about Friday and said, “There is an hour (opportune time) on Friday and if a Muslim gets it while praying and asks something from Allah, then Allah will definitely meet his demand.” And he (the Prophet) pointed out the shortness of that time with his hands. (Sahih al-Bukhari 935)Please remember me and my family in your duas 🙂

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